Sims 2 pets questions? Please answer fans of the game! 10 points best answer!?

I was just waiting around with my 2 sims then the grim reaper appeared and took 1 of my sims away and left a grave telling me she was dead?! I really want to resurrect her and I know you need to do something with a paranormal job but my person won't go to the news paper and when I tell him to go and read about the paranormal job he says like hes hungry or something else and won't do it. How do I get him to get the girl the grim reaper took? Easy to follow instructions will get you 10 points. And how do you get cats to have kittens? Like how do you get them to fall in love and have kittens if thats what you need to do? Because I really want my cat to have kittens. THANK YOU SO MUCH! Detailed easy to follow instructions will do the trick for both questions. Thanks again!